Simple, proven strategies to help your child thrive. No jargon, no judgment—just practical support for everyday parenting moments.
All behavior is communication. When children act out, they're telling us something—maybe they're tired, frustrated, or don't have the skills yet to handle a situation. Our job as parents is to help them learn those skills.
You know your child best. The strategies here are tools to try, not rules to follow perfectly. Every family is different, and what works may vary. Be patient with yourself and your child—change takes time.
Evidence-based approaches that work. These strategies are used by teachers, therapists, and parents around the world.
Notice and praise positive behaviors more than correcting negative ones. Aim for 5 positive comments for every 1 correction.
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Children do better when they know what's expected. Keep rules simple, positive, and consistent.
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Consistent routines reduce anxiety and behavior challenges. Children feel secure when they know what comes next.
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Children learn emotional regulation by watching adults. Your calm response teaches them to manage big feelings.
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Behavior is communication. Instead of punishment, help children learn better ways to get their needs met.
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A strong relationship is the foundation of behavior support. Connection helps children feel safe enough to learn.
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Changing behavior takes time—for both children and adults. Celebrate small wins, be patient with setbacks, and remember that you're doing important work.
Free, reliable information from respected organizations. These links will open in a new window.
Positive Behavioral Interventions & Supports
Official PBIS resources adapted for families to use at home.
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC)
Evidence-based parenting essentials from the CDC.
American Academy of Pediatrics
Family dynamics and behavior guidance from pediatricians.
Child Mind Institute
Expert articles on understanding and supporting child behavior.
Zero to Three
Early childhood development and behavior support.
Understood.org
Practical behavior strategies for children who learn differently.
National Association for the Education of Young Children
Resources for families from early education experts.
Center for Parent Information & Resources
Information for families of children with disabilities.
You don't have to do this alone. Consider reaching out to these community resources.
School counselors can provide support and connect you with local resources.
Your child's doctor can rule out medical causes and provide referrals.
Connect with other parents facing similar challenges.
Many communities have free family support services.
The fact that you're here, looking for ways to support your child, shows how much you care. That love and commitment is the most important thing you can give them.
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